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Hello and Welcome

So this is the first post.  Perhaps a little explanation.

I lack confidence and consistently choose to exist in my comfort zone.  I want to change.  A big part of this is becoming more successful talking and interacting with strangers (particularly attractive females).  At the moment I have massive approach anxiety when approaching strangers.  This, I believe is the key to my journey towards introducing my best self to the world.

I read a post recently that said “people skills are the keys to your success and happiness“.  I genuinely believe this and I think it’s important that I step out of my comfort zone and pro-actively tackle my issues.

Inspired by the writings on this blog, I’ve decided to take  responsibility, as I am the one who has the biggest impact on my future.  As recommend (you need to register on ApproachAnxiety.com to get the full text), the thing that will help most is to approach every day, without fail, and to learn from every interaction.

So that’s that.  The secret to success lies in people skills.  Learning happens when you step outside your comfort zone.  An approach a day is extremeley outside my comfort zone.  I’ll try and record what happens – look out for the “log” tag.